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Spooktacular Fitness Challenge!

Happy October everyone!! It is officially my favorite time of the year; Halloween has always been my favorite holiday, which my son clearly knew and decided to be born two days before on October 29th. Since I am trying to better my health and overall fitness level I decided to set out a challenge for myself and thought I would share it here if anyone wants to join me or share what their October fitness goals are.

I am late to the game as it is currently October 2nd but we’ll count yesterday and today as prep days. This is totally casual and just a little schedule I put together for myself so definitely feel free to alternate it to your lifestyle and needs but I think Fall is a great time to step up the fitness game and really work on my goals before the holiday madness truly begins. Just a reminder that I’m a stay-at-home mom whose husband works in the emergency field and works long shifts typically 5-6 days a week so some of the workouts on this challenge are at-home and ones I have either done before or am eager to try! As always please let me know what you like to do to motivate yourself and make changes toward a healthier life. Until next time guys, BOO! -Chrissy

October 3- FitnessBlender’s Fat Burning Cardio Workout (YouTube)

October 4- Orangetheory workout (or any studio workout you belong to if any, example Spin or Barre, Pilates etc)

October 5- Gym cardio (i.e treadmill, elliptical or rower)/lower body

October 6- Take Sean on hour walk in stroller around town

October 7- Gym upper body/cardio workout

October 8- Rest Day

October 9- Orangetheory workout

October 10- Yoga With Adriene’s Yoga for Weightless (YouTube)

October 11- Orangetheory workout

October 12- Power walk outside one hour

October 13- Gym for abs/strength training

October 14- Rest Day

October 15- FitnessBlender’s Cardio Kickboxing (YouTube)

October 16- Orangetheory workout

October 17- PopSugar Fitness’ 30-minute Hip-Hop Tabata (YouTube)

October 18- Gym upper body/cardio

October 19- Rest Day

October 20- Swim! (We will be on vacation and the hotel has a pool)

October 21- Walk everywhere (We will be in Disneyland so I have a feeling I’ll be getting more cardio in than I want, ha!)

October 22- Gym cardio/lower body

October 23- FitnessBlender’s Bodyweight HIIT cardio (YouTube)

October 24- Rest Day

October 25- Orangetheory workout

October 26- Walk track at local school, one hour

October 27- Put on music videos and dance like no one’s watching, 30-45 minutes

October 28- Gym, upper body focus

October 29- Yoga With Adriene’s Yoga for Core and Booty (YouTube)

October 30- Rest Day

October 31- HAPPY HALLOWEEN!! My workout will be following Sean for miles as he trick-or-treats

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When a pet passes on and explaining it to your child

Sorry for being so MIA guys as you can probably tell from the title we have been going through a rough time. Our beloved french bulldog has been suffering from a disc disease for over a year and when it happened out Vet and the emergency doctors told us he would most likely need to be put down but had us try medical maintenance for a while and it would work but only to a certain degree. He was only seven but in that amount of time has suffered from so many medical conditions it was unreal. The amount of times his back/neck would go out and debilitate him was getting more prominent and he was taking longer in-between episodes to recover. Finally the other week an episode was going on for almost three weeks and we knew it was time to let him go and not have to suffer. I can’t explain how hard this has been and how conflicted I have felt even though I knew it wasn’t fair for him to live like that and was told by many people, including the veterinarians that it was what was right for him it doesn’t stop you from feeling so incredibly guilty and sick over it. On top of that having a toddler that doesn’t understanding everything yet has made it more difficult. Now I know everyone has different religious beliefs and to say that I have been strong in faith as an adult would be lie, however I was raised going to church, my parents still go to church every weekend and growing up having something to believe in such as Heaven truly did give me comfort in times of grief like this. I explained to my son at first that our dog was very sick, then as it got more obvious that he wasn’t coming back I explained the concept of heaven as simply as I could and that animals like our dog go there when they are sick and can’t live down here anymore. I won’t lie and say it was easy and that it made him feel better right away but it did help him to understand the concept of death in a way that I feel wasn’t overwhelming but also wasn’t just lying and acting as if his dog might possibly come back to give false hope. Regardless of what you believe or how you choose to explain what happened, just know that telling you toddler the truth, as much as it hurts, truly is for the best and helps them go through the grieving process and accept it as opposed to acting as if nothing has happened. I hope that if anyone is going through this, or has before, and has struggled over it that you truly aren’t alone and even though it’s the right thing to do to stop their suffering, it will always be hard for us to deal with. I will be taking a little longer of a break online then will get back into the swing of regular posts etc. Until next time, XO Chrissy

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My husband gained a job: I gained weight

It’s no secret that I’ve been struggling with my weight on and off for most of my life, but the last half a year or so it has really skyrocketed and has been so hard to get any off. I have been wracking my brain as to why this happened and then I had a realization. Last Fall my dad was sick, which has been years worth of struggle but we can get into that a different time if I feel the need. Anyway, I was so busy going back and froth from the hospital and my husband was still in the background stages of his government job so there was a lot more down time for him to watch our son and hold down the fort for me etc. I dropped a lot of weight during this time and kept it off over the holidays. Then in January my husband started his new job (which I am so grateful for and we are so lucky that he has the position that he does,) however his schedule is 12 hour shifts, a lot of overtime and shift covering etc. because he works in public safety/emergency services. Needless to say this creates very little free time for him and everything around the house and regarding our son fell on me. Don’t get me wrong I was used to doing most of that but with additional time for me to be able to go to the gym routinely, take a shopping break a couple of times a week etc., and suddenly I had no time at all. We rely on our parents for child care when we really need it but do not have a babysitter etc. due to how expensive it is and I had decided to stay home for these few years to raise Sean and not put him in daycare. I don’t think I realized how hard its been to have my husband in a job that requires such unusual hours and long shifts and how I have completely put my needs on hold for the most part, which I know sounds like I’m complaining and things could be so much worse but I know you guys are ok with a little venting session know and then. Putting my mental and physical health on the back burner for half a year has absolutely affected my body negatively and I know I need to scratch and claw my way back to a better healthier situation. I am hopeful that when Sean starts school next week (for a couple of days a week) that I can start to mend myself and look and feel how I know I should, and we all deserve to feel healthy and strong in our own bodies. Being on this end of the spectrum I can see how much I would take my health and athleticism for granted when I was in good shape but would only ever see the negative about myself, which makes me want to kick myself looking back on it. I know that I need to get my health straightened out in order to be the best version of myself and would love any tips on how to do that from those of you that are parents or have busy jobs or just have gone through health battles of your own. Sorry for the random somewhat complain driven post but this community has been so uplifting and you guys have messaged me some great advice before and I am so thankful. Until next time XO Chrissy

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Let’s move on from Mom Guilt, shall we?

The thing about becoming a stay-at-home mom is that, for many of us, you commit to it full force and get swept away in turning your attention to your childs needs every minute of the day with very little emphasis on your own. Of course, this is how parenthood should be, but to say it isn’t wearing at times is a lie. This summer has been unnaturally busy for me with all the weddings I am in on top of regular every day activities, but each time I have had to go out-of-town that Mom Guilt in the back of my mind has crept in. I have had to take these trips for some of the wedding activties and WANT to, so why should I feel guilty? My son is almost 4 and had a blast staying with my Father-in-law and getting his own vacation of sorts, so the feeling of thinking I shouldn’t take this time for myself and to be there for these activities with my friends is ridiculous, but goes to show the stigma of being a stay-at-home parent can get to you whether you realize it or not. Just because being a parent is our job, it doesn’t mean we completely put our lives on hold for 18 years. I realized that feeling like I need to be with him all the time and feeling like a burden for having family watch him a few days (even though they were literally elated to have him,) is putting guilt on myself for absolutely no reason. We may not have a 9-5 jobs but our job is literally to care for our kids 24 hours of the day, and that’s the most difficult job anyone could have. I do realize though that the older he gets and the more vocal, the mom guilt when I’m away from his has lessened because I know he can tell people if he needs something. The anxiety assumingly also stems from me not being used to being away from him and that has become my comfort zone for the past 3.5 years, even if it isn’t always comfortable, it is my norm. It’s funny to look forward to the minute you get a trip away then immediately think wow, I miss him so much. The grass is certainly always greener but I’m trying to find balance between being involved in his every move and also making my own needs a priortiy because he will only rely on me for so long, but on the other hand I need to continue to build on my own goals as well. Just writing that sounded so dramatic but it really is a balancing act trying to be a parent and be your own person as well. If you are experiencing the mom or dad guilt for taking time for yourself, even if it’s just making sure you get to some workouts every week or get to have happy hour etc., don’t ever feel bad for this. We can’t be the parents we want to be if we constantly burn out on taking care of everything and everyone else except ourselves. It doesn’t matter if other people think you should be doing more or what their opinions are because anyone who thinks we don’t need breaks..isn’t a parent. 🙂 Until next time, xo Chrissy

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Even the best of times cause anxiety..

This summer has been the busiest one I can remember. Being in all of these weddings in a row, while an honor, has been a bit more stressful than I was imagining. As someone who has had anxiety since I was 18, I know that even though staying busy can be a good thing, sometimes when times get TOO busy, it can really send my anxiety into high gear. The thing about anxiety is that it comes from nowhere sometimes and other times it’s as if your body knows you’re under a lot of stress and is trying to tell you because your brain hasn’t really realized it yet. That seems to be exactly what’s going on lately. Even though these events are wonderful, the planning and execution and traveling is starting to add up and I can physically feel it. On a side note, planes make my skin crawl so that is another huge contributing factor. We also just found out that we can’t take our dog up to the first wedding..which may I reiterate is this weekend so that’s just another hurdle to have to jump on top of every day life and trying to get ready for the trip itself. Yes I am aware that there are much worse things in life and I never take my health and these experiences for granted, however anxiety spares very few of us and it truly does turn easy events into difficult ones when it occurs. I guess I’m writing this because it’s whats been on my mind a lot lately and anxiety/mental health issues have had such a stigma but I do see people being more open about their problems and I think it’s important for all of us who suffer to remember that it really is so common and we aren’t alone in these struggles. Luckily my anxiety got much less extreme as I entered my mid-twenties but I’m fairly sure it is something I will have to deal with all of my life and finally accepting that has actually helped me see things in a more positive light. Just knowing that I will always need to work on my coping skills and management is ok with me and I’m aware of it. As the bachelorettes and showers have come to an end, this weekend marks the first of three weddings in a row and, just like a rollercoaster, I know that the anticipation of leading up to this is what’s causing the most of the anxiety and once I’m in the moment it will start to dissipate. Thank you for listening to a seemingly random ramble but if it resonates with you at all I hope you know you’re definitely not alone. I have a fitness update coming soon but wanted to write this while it was on my mind for those who can relate and also for myself, which is truly the greatest part of writing. Until next time, XO Chrissy

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